Preparing For Change

Each day put one foot in front of the other.

Open yourself up to new possibilities.

The answer to our problems is within ourselves. We expect others to change and when they don’t we are disappointed.  The disappointment comes from not bringing our “Expectations” and “Reality” closer together. We need to take off the “blinders” we all put on when we ~fall in love~

Only by taking control of our own lives can we find the true happiness we are seeking. By not allowing others to control us by learning to think differently about ourselves.

Here are some points to consider:

	Stop self-doubting.
	Learn to believe in ourselves.
	Trust we can make the right choices in the decisions of our lives.
	Stop expecting other to change.
	Make changes within ourselves.
	Change what can be changed and accept what we cannot change.

Acceptance of what is “true” and not pretending it is what we want it to be.  There is nothing we can do to change others if they don’t want to change.  They may not believe they need to change if they don’t believe there is a problem.

The POWER to do what we want is within all of us.  We only need to rely on our inner strength to release the power.  In order for change to happen, our thinking must first change.  Power is gained in two ways, one by abuse, and the other by living a life with integrity, love, caring and compassion. Taking back our power and making choices for changes in ourselves brings the happiness we all seek.  If we leave those choices to others, they may not choose what is best for us. Once we begin the change in our thinking process, the changes in our lives become real.

Nonviolent alternatives offers classes to assist in learning to change the way we think to bring change to our lives.  The thinking begins with the follow slogan we use in each of our classes…

 There is nothing another person can say or do that can make me say or do

something I know in my conscience is wrong.

Contact us anytime to begin the changes in your life.

317.346.7299

or email us for more information

info@nonviolentalternatives.com

The power to have happiness is within all of us.

We only have to believe in ourselves to make it happen.